SPOTLIGHT ON DARKHEARTS STRIP & ESCORTS - SLE REPORTING

 

SPOTLIGHT ON DARKHEARTS STRIP & ESCORTS

For many who have experienced Second Life and explored the many sides of the grid, it is no surprise that the adult industry is still very much alive. Unlike the gritty poor taste sex clubs of the past things are evolving in Second Life and becoming more accepted in the mainstream virtual world community. Many of the residents who have experience in virtual adult play have become professional and know the ins and outs of what adventure seekers are really looking for. It’s not about cheap one-night stands anymore, it’s about exploring those fantasies and learning things about themselves that add to their personal happiness and may even enhance their real-world sex lives and relationships. There’s no room for shame when adults want to play and explore, as long as they aren't breaking laws or harming others in the process, so with that said, we would like to introduce you to Master Paimon and Darkhearts Strip & Escorts Club.

Interview with Master Paimon

SLE: Hi Master Paimon, it is a pleasure to meet you and learn more about you and what you do in Second Life.  Can you tell us a little about you, where are you from and how did you discover Second Life?

Master Paimon: Hello! My name is Master Paimon, I am 37 IRL. I've been on Second Life only about a year after hearing about it for almost 10. A few friends had joined and had been encouraging me to as well. I finally broke down and joined, and now I'm hooked lol.

SLE: Well it seems it took you a bit to “come to the dark side” but glad you did. Would you consider Second Life an extension of your real life or just a game to explore your interests?

Master Paimon: It's funny, I love Second Life because it allows people the freedom to be their true selves without fear of judgments or drama. I've always lived my life that way, and im happy that the platform can give a taste of that to those who simply cannot because of RL work concerns, family issues, etc. For me, I live my life much as I do on SL (Minus some of the cool buildings of course).

I am polyamorous and goth in my real life, and I really don't care what anyone thinks about how I live my life. Its mine. It's short. Live the life you want to both on SL, and hopefully in real life as well.

SLE: Having the ability to be who you are without any judgment is always an alluring factor people have found in Second Life. So tell us, adult entertainment is big business in Second Life. It allows adults to explore their sexual interests in a safe and nonjudgemental way, what inspired you to create Darkhearts and what does your club offer SL residents?

Master Paimon: We came up with the name "Darkhearts" because we wanted it to be a place where people could explore their interests using the principle of S.S.C. (Safe, Sane & Consensual). Is it safe? Well, it's pixels on a screen and a roleplay, so no one gets hurt or emotionally damaged. Is it sane? Yes, it's pretty sane to have desires and to be able to act on them in a way that won't hurt anyone.

Is it consensual? The Darkhearts Dolls are able to consent to things they are willing to roleplay AND decline things that they don't want to. We also have some things our club does NOT allow, such as anything involving a minor even in roleplay. Minors CAN NOT consent, so that's right out. Our tag line is "Whatever your Darkhearts desire".

SLE: Well there are a lot of emotions that can happen and people need to remember that there is a real-life person behind the screen also. There are many adult clubs on the grid. What separates yours from the rest?

Master Paimon: I think our style is one thing. We're a little more like the Suicide Girls than Playboy here at Darkhearts. The other side of it is friendliness. We're not going to barrage you, we're not going to bite unless you ask us to, we're not going to judge you or ban you if you just want to come and party and listen to DJs we host nightly. We want it to be fun, friendly, and open to everyone.

SLE: It is very good to be open and accepting like that, a lot of places need to learn that and adopt that thought process. What type of events do you host and how often?

Master Paimon: We host TONS of parties, we have DJs nightly, and on certain days run DJs 24/7. We do fun costume parties, pool parties, and other fun stuff. We also love playing games in the club with everyone.

SLE: Music all day and night now that is a party we need to go to! Adult clubs can attract griefers, how do you ensure your escorts and strippers are not harassed? What precautions and rules do you have in place to avoid the drama?

Master Paimon: We understand griefers all too well, we all hate them. 24 hours a day there is always someone available that can remove them from the estate, which is different than just the club. Grief in our clubs, and you won't be able to come to any of my other clubs, our rentals, our bowling alley, and the arcade. Nothing. We also our ladies work together with our managers, and should a problem arise, they can help either diffuse the issue or outright ban them.

SLE: I like that all your employees are on the same page and help and assist each other if the need arises. So tell us, are you currently hiring? If so what positions are you offering and how can they apply? What qualifications must they have?

Master Paimon: We are hiring DJs, Hosts, and Escorts. DJs we always do a trial run with to see if they've got what we're looking for. Hosts same thing, we want to see that you are fun and engaging. Escorts, we are VERY selective about who we hire, but it's more personality. An Avi can be fixed, but it's the personality that cant. You've got to be fun and friendly, engaging, and have a sultry seductive side. That goes for voice, lovense, and text escorts.

SLE: Well hopefully you will see an influx after this gets published. When you arent at Darkheart, what other things are you involved in Second Life?

Master Paimon: I DJ at both of my clubs, I enjoy our bowling alley (were about to start a naked bowling league at Kinkiva, lol) I run my rental business. and I hang out in the dungeon with my submissives.

SLE: Naked bowling? Better watch where the bowling ball lands! What group can residents join to learn more about your club events?

Master Paimon: You can teleport to Darkhearts by going to Darkhearts-SL.com. Once there, be sure to join our group Darkhearts- Strip & Escort Club

SLE:  It was a pleasure meeting you. We wish you success with your new club. Is there anything else you would like to share about Darkheart Strip & Escort Club?

Master Paimon: Likewise! I'd just like to invite everyone to come to see for themselves. You don't have to buy a dance to come hang out, we enjoy the conversation, and love making new friends!

 

Additional Information:

SLURL: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Chimayo%20Gardens/130/211/32

Group: Darkhearts-Strip & Escort Club : secondlife:///app/group/232b3883-3292-f238-5f9d-cf83332bef5a/about

Preferred Contact:Master Paimon (vizierpaimon)

Read More

CYBERSEX 101 (PART 2) – A NOOB GUIDE TO “LOVE ON THE GRID”- JOSH (THOMAS1 BELLIC) REPORTING

 

What follows are the results of extensive research, where we surveyed dozens of Subject Matter Experts on the topic.  We have distilled the collected wisdom from 33 of those experts. Altogether, these individuals have amassed over four CENTURIES of residency in SecondLife, totaling 435 years of experience! Let me encourage you to read and heed their guidance and suggestions as you navigate your own way through the pleasure and pitfalls of “love on the grid”

In Part 1 of our series, our panel of experts identified some of the more cringe-worthy mistakes that noobs make during cybersex.  You can read Part One by going to:

http://www.slenquirer.com/2022/01/cybersex-101-noob-guide-to-love-on-grid.html

Here in Part 2, we will look at what our seasoned experts believe makes for a particularly good Cyber sexual encounter,

Finally, in Part 3, we will wrap up with an open question to allow our seasoned experts to expand  on anything else they wanted to share about the topic

Last month I asked our panel of experts “What makes for a particularly good Cybersex experience for you?”

One of the first answers I got was particularly telling when the respondent wrote “is there such a thing as a “good experience” with a newbie?

For the purposes of this article, I decided to separate the advice given by our panel of experts into three phases of cybersex.  Generally, these would be BEFORE – what  to do prior to entering the bedroom;  DURING the actual act of Cyber Coitus, and finally, AFTER you have “done the deed”

BEFORE:

As with anything worth doing, laying the groundwork, so to speak, is important in any endeavor, but especially so in an activity as intimate as Cybersex

Go Mesh or Go Home

A recurring theme here was that your avi is important.  SL is largely a visual medium, and the visuals, though not the ONLY factor in great Cyber, does have an impact.  Comments included:

·        “Have a well put together avatar.  Don't just buy the avatar, open the box, and rush out to play.  Put some effort into being unique.  Most people who draw your attention put a lot of effort into their appearance and want the same in return. “

·        “Of course, the guy must always take care of how he looks.  If the woman is always making sure she is looking her hottest or most beautiful, then the guy needs to do that as well. I like the avi of the other person to be nice and pleasant as a person”

Foreplay – Another crucial element is what you do in the time leading up to the actual sex itself. Panelists were most insistent on the importance of this element:

·        “I love foreplay, the kissing and exploring with hands and fingers. When it comes time to talking dirty, I love  to have my partner use compelling language and be as detailed and descriptive as possible so that I can be totally immersed in the fantasy”

·        “The chase/foreplay is hot.  Don't sell it short.  Spend some time with the erotic foreplay to get your partner engaged.  Don't just jump right to the sex, as then we are back to what I said about making an alt and just playing with yourself!”

·        “For me personally I like for it to look like an actual date.  I’m not a fan of all these sex sims where people just go for casual sex. I like to go out somewhere nice. It's great to talk to the person and establish a rapport. Then when it's time for sex the furniture has good animations and isn't outdated. I already mentioned the emoting but with that you don't want to overdo it either and try to type a book with every post there's plenty of middle ground.”

·        For me, a connection makes it sexy, so I like anticipation.  Talking to someone a few times, getting to know them, looking forward to their IMs.  Then, when we finally DO get to the sex, I am ready to tear their clothing off.  That anticipation makes is so much more erotic. 

Communicate  

“What we’ve got heah, is a failyeah, to communicate!”  Just like the Iconic line from Cool Hand Luke, how you communicate with your partner is crucial to having a successful and memorable engagement. 

Our panel of experts all had something to say about the importance of communication.

·        Open and honest communication about what you like and don't like, just like real life. Respect your partner and don't think that just because they are pixels, they can't be hurt - just like you.

·        A good experience for me is when I find myself in an interesting conversation  that leads into an emotional interaction that was completely unexpected

·        etting to know someone…see if there is a connection with the other person before jumping into bed makes for a great time. Get to know that person see what they like and don’t like. I have found if I am with someone I did not take the time to get to know first it can lead to a disappointing experience. No one wants that especially me...When you find someone that you can relate to will want more and will be happier because of it..

·        I'm like any other woman. Being romanced and paid attention to, are high on my list.  in SL, it’s all about the chase.  but its where the chase ends, and you are with your guy on steady terms, that is when things could either blossom or die.

 

DURING

OK…You have scoped out the terrain, made the approach, and now it is time to close the deal.  Even when it seems to be going well…you can still blow it and end up alone (and frustrated) if you don’t follow a few basic rules.  The Panelists shared these gems from their personal, and considerable, experience.

One person said:

·        If you get a chance, learn the furniture you are on so you know what poses and animations do what, so there is not a lot of flipping around. * If you don't know the furniture, then make a joke out of it.  Laugh, have fun.  Just like in rl sex, being comfortable makes it so much more erotic. 

Respond to your Partner

·        I like being with someone who is responsive, eloquent, and fun, able to interact fast, keeping some rhythm as opposed to someone just changing poses at their convenience, hardly able/willing to talk. I've left a few there on the spot, logging off, because of that more than once, feeling like an inflatable doll :-P

·        I like someone who responds to what I say and do. If I say "This feels so good." a response, even a simple "ty" or "yes it does" is preferable to no response at all

·        I like the interaction, knowing the other person is there with you on the moment. not multi-tasking and just responding with moans

·        It is pretty much the same like making love in RL - don't be boring!

Communication

The need to communicate effectively is as important now as it is in other phases of the experience.  Some of the more cogent comments from our panelists include:

·        Communication is key during Cybersex. One of the biggest mistakes noobies make, (and some experienced guys also), is to ignore my emotes. If I'm panting and moaning and telling you not to stop "F--king me", that is not the time to click the menu and put me in the cuddle menu. Another one is when I'm screaming, "OMG, right there, that feels amazing, yeeess yesss right there!" Don’t change the pose. it’s a turn off to  think that the only reason the guy is having sex with me is so he can watch himself perform in every gymnastic position he can find to put me in.

·        Put some detail into your emoting.  I can SEE what we are doing, but your words are what can make me FEEL it.  Think of what you would be doing to me in RL, and tell me.  The detail makes it hot.

·        Creative Emoting.  Something more than nonsense sounds like "mmmmm" or "Oh my god oh my god oh my god"    Use adjectives.   Short sentences... It's more important to keep the pace going than it is to write a four-paragraph porn novel.  Be respectful.  Let the other person finish and then craft your reply to make sense in the context of that the other person just wrote. Try to become codependent in the emoting and not go off on your own tangent. Compliment the partner often during and after sex

 

Multisensory

Great Cybersex takes more than just some cool animations on a pose ball.  More than just sexy emotes.  More than just a sexy voice.  Really GREAT Cybersex take appealing to several sources of stimulation.  Here again, our panelists were quick to share their experiences.   

·        I love the visual as well as hearing her voice change in my ears. being able to move to a pose I would in RL.

·        I mean, it's not like you are sitting on a couch and feeling each other…you have to be able to talk about it and share your feelings. And don't assume she (or he!) wants to know what you are doing in RL during all this. and that’s another point. If you get to know someone pretty well, sex is more natural and even if you make mistakes, they won't just run off :)

·        Whatever you do, don't stop in the middle for question-and-answer time

·        So guys, let me give you some friendly advice: first, don't rely on the “Device” (Xcite, etc) scripts to do the talking for you, and second, stop thinking about cybersex as porn. Start thinking about it as creative writing instead. Show off some language skills and some imagination to the ladies, and you'll find them more than willing ;-)

·        I never felt the urge to use the pose balls. I rely more on actual words.  When poses don’t work, they tend to throw off one if not both parties making it hard to get to where you need to be in your head.

·        I have experienced some of the most intense times with someone, even when there are minimal animations involved. It’s the erotic images and thoughts that turn me on, not throwing me into a different pose every two seconds until you learn the menu.

AFTER:

So then, you have taken your time, you have demonstrated a caring attitude, you connected with your partner on a deeper level, you both reached a “Happy Ending”.  Now what?

Our panel of experts was pretty much of one mind on this point.  Hang out for a bit.  The suggestions included:

·        “Stay for at least ten minutes.  Women don't like cum and go guys.  If they poof after two minutes.....ooooh what a lover”

·        “Some chat before and after...... treat me with respect”

So there you have it, Folks.  Incorporating some or all of these ideas will help make you a better Cyber lover, And Hey,  If you’re gonna do something, why not do it right and be the best you can at it?

Stay tuned in a couple of weeks when our 33-member panel of sexperts wraps up our 3-part series with some of their favorite personal anecdotes about the subject.

Be There

Aloha

JB

Read More

CYBERSEX 101 – A NOOB GUIDE TO “LOVE ON THE GRID” – JOSH (THOMAS1 BELLIC) REPORTING

OK...SOOO...you are new to SL.  You came to meet people. To build…maybe as an outlet for your artistic expression…You were here about a day and a half when you learned about an entirely different side of the Grid. The Naughty side, as it were.  Of course, you are interested…curious maybe, and like everything else, you want to see what this is all about.  Whether you were introduced to cybersex at the hands of a caring mentor, or if your first experience was at a group orgy, chances are you have questions about it all, and how you can maximize your enjoyment, and that of your partners, in this thing called cybersex.  Questions like “How do I know if she or he is interested? Are there any “Green Light” Phrases?” or “What is it about working the animations? Is there anything special to know about that?”  And then the ever-present “To voice, or not to voice?  That is the question.”

In keeping with the SL Enquirer’s continuing mission to inform our readers, over the next several weeks we will publish a three-part series on how to be the best cyberlover you can. 

What follows are the results of extensive research, where we surveyed dozens of Subject Matter Experts on the topic.  We have distilled the collected wisdom from 28 of those experts. Altogether, these individuals have amassed over three and a half CENTURIES of residency in SecondLife, totaling 376 years of experience! Let me encourage you to read and heed their guidance and suggestions as you navigate your own way through the pleasure and pitfalls of “love on the grid”

In Part One of our series, our panel of experts was asked to identify some of the more noteworthy mistakes that noobs make during cybersex.

In Part two, we will look at what our seasoned experts believe makes for a particularly good cybersexual encounter,

Finally, in Part Three, we will wrap up with an open question to allow our seasoned experts to expand  on anything else they wanted to share about the topic

Before you enter into the wild and confusing and exciting world of cybersex, you should ask yourself “why do you even want to have sex in SL?” If you're doing it because you want to change your RL, make sure your "target" has the same kind of ideas. Most don't.  Along with that... What do you expect from it? Is it just porn for you? Or to help you “get off”? Or maybe you've never really had sex at all and are just trying to fill that gap.  I once had a counselor who works with individuals with disabilities tell me that  “For people with some disabilities, [cyber]sex may be the ONLY sex they will ever get to experience”   Do you care about this person you're hoping to have sex with, or is it totally casual? And do they feel the same way?  Be sure you can address these questions before proceeding.

Part One:  What are some of the more noteworthy “Noob Mistakes” during Cybersex?

There were several answers to this question that were repeated time and again by our “sexperts”. Most often cited was the poor quality of the dialogue that often accompanies a noob’s initial dive into cybersex. Fully 48% of those responding identified this as a top concern

·         “It's okay to reach out and contact people you're interested in, start a chat first, but don't just offer friendship without a word said, and send a random TP offer to some remote sex beach.”

One writer summed it up nicely when she said:

·         “Learn how to emote! This is where you get creative and describe what is going on or even add something to it to heighten the experience makes all the difference in the world. Don't just keep typing harder, faster, or deeper. You can only get so hard or go so fast. You can only go so deep. [Repeating this over and over] just makes you look stupid.”

Other comments included:

·         “You must establish with the quality your intention and that of the couple, it is for fun, it is for porn sex, it is for love? That will help you avoid problems that may end up breaking your heart.

"I have noticed…the lack of quality roleplay and immersion. A lot of the RP would be rapid, machine-gun fire posts, without waiting for a reply like: mmm…so good….ahhh…Noob: nice p***sy”

Some noted the sparseness of supporting emotes:

   “Don’t just watch the animations. There needs to be a conversation. Narrate the scene. playoff of each other”

·         “Don’t use shorthand texting abbreviations. You could come off like an uneducated dumbass or she may think the guy behind the profile has the maturity level of a 14-year-old.”

·         “Take your time, learn to emote.  Do not be a paragraph writer.  "Lays you on your back.  Spreads your legs… pushing into you" works better for you and your partner than writing a book.”

On the other hand, sometimes there is too much text.

·         “No excessive emoting, it is supposed to be about your thoughts and what you would be doing in RL, not a paragraph from ‘50 Shades of Grey’.”

·         “Don't ‘godmod’ - don't tell me what I am doing or feeling or saying.  Let me respond for me, and you respond for you.  Nothing is as annoying as being told you are screaming out in ecstasy when you just emoted biting your lip in silence.”

·         “Don't ignore what your partner is emoting.  So many people who are new to this start writing what they are doing and forget that it is a two-way street.  Write...and then READ and respond.  Make it a give and take.”

Additionally, 26% of the respondents addressed the importance of having a hi-quality Avatar.

·         “First of all, you should make sure your avie is totally mesh, no one likes being with a noob especially if your body doesn't look good.  That sounds a little mean but it is so true.”

·         “I recommend investing some time and effort into your avatar and strive to bring a unique look to your avatar that defines you. There's still a lot of avatars running around with system avatars that look like they were made with scissors and paste and 2006 fell on their spiky heads.”

·         “Avoid having an ugly avatar - get a mesh body (yes, there are free ones for that). If you're a guy, do NOT get yourself a "freenis" (=a free penis) - they look ugly!”

·         “Don't just put on your new c**k and run out to play.  Learn to use it.  Color it.  Position it.  Get to know the hud, so that your use of it is not the focus of the interaction.”

A full 20% of the respondents noted that how you initiate cybersex is of crucial importance.

Never ever (!!!!!) just approach a person and just say “Ur Hawt”, Wanna f**k?" or “nice tits” as your opening sentence'" The approach.  "Wanna F**k" is not going to get you any further in SL than in RL. 

·         “Like in RL, most people want a little seduction.  If all we wanted was to jump on a pose ball, we would make an alt of the opposite sex and never bother engaging with others.”

One contributor identified a major problem upfront:

·         “Asking for Sex. That's the number one mistake.  No one worthy of your time wants to be asked to have sex.  The trick is to engage in conversation in a way that makes them think they want to get to know you better.  Then invite them to join you on a chair or sofa to be comfortable during conversation.  And from there you might stroke their hair or their shoulder.  Perhaps you kiss their mouth when the moment feels right and see how they react.  If they are into it and kiss back... you have permission to go further.   if they simply Smile and do not kiss back... disengage and find someone else.”

And finally,

·         “Always cuddle before and after - don't be a cad.”

Other challenges noted were too numerous to fully cover here, but they included things like how often to change poses or not. Once your partner has the camera properly positioned, hopping from pose to pose every 10 or 15 seconds can be irritating.  Some have suggested no more than 4 or five poses should be used during an entire encounter. Pay attention to details…placement of appendages…not poking thru bellies or outback of heads.

So, there you have it, folks – some of the more common mistakes noobs (and more experienced residents) can make while cybering.  Confusing?  Yeah.  It certainly can be.  But with a little practice and attention to detail, you too can become the Don Juan (or Donna Juan) of Cyber.

Stay tuned for the next two parts in this series, where we will continue our discussion about what makes for great cyber, as our sexperts share from their experience gained in this important aspect of life on the grid.

Be There.  Aloha!

JB

 

Read More

CLUB DEEPER'S GENTLEMEN'S CLUB ~GRAND OPENING- FRIDAY, OCT 1ST ~THEME: LEATHER & LACE

 

CLUB DEEPER'S GRAND OPENING OCTOBER 1ST 10AM - 7 PM THEME:  LEATHER & LACE DJ JADED~DJ SOUL~DJ STORMY SINGERS: PREMIUM COMPOSER~CHILLEE HERNANDOZ ~YOU'VE TRIED THE REST, NOW COME TRY THE BEST~ Friday, October 1st, Club Deeper will be having their Grand Opening of the next generation in Gentlemen's Clubs.  We invite you to come and mingle and meet our staff.  We are proud of our staff and feel we have the classiest, sexiest, "put a smile on your face" ladies. They will be dressed in the finest leather and lace lingerie for our theme of the evening to entice you.  They will all be strutting their stuff just for you, dare to resist.  We invite you to come down and check out our beautiful new club, designed with your desires in mind.   Join us Friday, October 1st for a day of fun, pleasure and entertainment, we have three incredible DJ's to set the mood for our opening. Then we have our live singers, first the incredible Premium Composer at 5pm followed by the wildest hot Chillee Hernandoz at 6pm.   Come dance, socialize, relax, as the Club tempts YOU to go deeper.   Be sure to join our group while you are there, we have lots of fun events lined up with you in mind. Debra Wylie, Digital Mgr

Taxi: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Entertainment/208/48/2002

Read More

The XXX Original Event August round is open

 

The XXX ORIGINAL EVENT is a monthly event, where people can find all kind of creations based on Adult content. Furniture, clothes, poses, animations, hairs, face marks, BDSM ... and all kind of stuff related to adult and SEX August 13th - September 3rd LM: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Possession/72/177/25 Gallery: https://bit.ly/3miKqxA

WebSite: https://posesionproduction.wixsite.com/posesion Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/154059950@N07/ https://www.flickr.com/groups/xxxevent Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/XXX-Event-1520316671372243/

Read More

Spotlight on JT’s At the Summit Intimate Encounters- SLE Reporting...

 

 There is a new full-service adult playground on the grid for intimate encounters. Jt’s at the Summit offers the grown and sexy crowd a variety of activities to do. From the main club with exotic dancers and escorts to a more intimate venue for the CFNM community as well as singles and couples to explore “group adult activities”. With many private areas to discover there is something for everyone. With a full sim to explore you will come across beautiful waterfalls, a beach house, social areas like the lounge and pool.  The SLE took a tour with Jt to learn more about Jt’s at the Summit. 

Interview with ღ JT ღ (msjacq)

SLE:  Hi Jt, where are you from and how did you discover Second Life?

ღ JT ღ (msjacq): I'm currently in Grad School in southern California, I was born in Miami, Florida, but grew up in Dunedin, Florida on the Gulf Coast. A very close friend who has been in SL a little while had been getting after me to join SL for quite some time, so I finally did.

SLE: Would you consider Second Life an extension of your real life or just a game?

ღ JT ღ (msjacq): Maybe an extension, but more a place to explore things that I may not necessarily be able to explore in real life. She's just more open, willing to explore the places within me that exist that I don't necessarily let out for air in the real-life version of me. I do keep a definite separation between the two, but the person you meet and interact with within SL, is me in about every way possible, even down to the hours I spent creating my avatar in my own likeness.

SLE: What inspired you to create Jt’s at the Summit?

ღ JT ღ (msjacq): So I've worked in some Clubs and Resorts in SL. I've managed one or two of them for a short time. None of them quite felt like home, like a true fit for me for a number of reasons. Sometimes it was my inability to be comfortable with the surroundings, cosmetically, or the theme of the place. Other times it was because of inadequate or incompetent management and drama. I put myself into my work, I give all of myself, and to do that and be happy I need to feel a connection to the place, very much like the love I have for my real-life career. None of the places I'd worked, or even seen in SL really allowed me to truly feel that sort of connection. So I began constructing the vision so to speak in my mind. What to me would be a place I could not only live, as my home is also on the Sim, but a place I could truly put myself into, and truly love. JT's at the Summit is the manifestation of that vision. So, I began looking for the perfect place to create that vision in world and was blessed to find Raven's Summit. Once I saw it, I knew it was home and everything just came together. 

SLE: This adult playground is an entire sim, can you share with our readers what they can expect when visiting Jt’s at the Summit?

ღ JT ღ (msjacq): What they can expect, or more, what I intend to provide is the ultimate adult experience. Truly, something for everyone, where you can fulfill your every desire. I put a great deal of thought into what needed to be here to provide that for our guests. I've built a number of areas on the island to accommodate that vision. Guests can expect a friendly fun staff genuinely interested in providing an amazing experience. They can expect to be treated with respect and kindness. Beautiful ladies to entertain our male guests (I am EXTREMELY picky about the look of my Dancers and Escorts. You won't find avatars that resemble cartoon characters with unrealistic and exaggerated features. We do want to celebrate diversity and be accepting as beauty comes in many shapes and sizes, but I insist on realistic human form avatars). Gorgeous Guys to entertain our female guests. A number of romantic and intimate areas throughout the island for our staff to entertain our clients and guests, as well as the ability for couples to spend intimate time together, have a date night, or just explore and enjoy the grounds, and relax. (I do appreciate a donation for couples who wish to enjoy our intimate areas) A well-kept and maintained sim where you can always contact ownership/management. But mostly, a place where fantasies can be fulfilled and explored. I'm not looking to get Linden rich here, my goal is to pay the bills and provide a place where guests and my staff can feel at home, safe,  and allow themselves to explore the experiences they desire. 

SLE: There are many adult venues in Second Life. What makes yours stand out from the rest?

ღ JT ღ (msjacq): Well first, none that I'm aware of have approached the adult venue experience with this business model. We're not just targeting one specific demographic. Our vision is to be all-inclusive and provide something for everyone. We've combined a number of different experiences for our guests in order to achieve that. Of course, it was necessary to provide the best furniture and amenities available with amazing animations as nothing kills the experience more than getting excited about what you're doing than the animations not living up to expectations so that was something I wasn't at all willing to compromise on. It was a priority to provide our clients with only the best but It was more than that. It had to be a place that when walking through, you would keep thinking, it's really beautiful here. As I said above I was blessed to find the perfect scenic location to build after looking and looking,  so I tried to take advantage of the beauty that existed here and highlight it. There is so much beauty here, and I tried to highlight all of it and provide a perfect setting for the ultimate adult experience. A place to truly live out your fantasies. Furthermore, It was also important that the main club, and sim in general not be, or cosmetically look like any other adult club or resort. That cheesy trashy look where you're afraid to sit anywhere, or all the neon and trashy pics, dark rooms, all the purple and pink, velvet, etc... all the common things you see in almost every adult club. A place that offered all the benefits of an adult club/resort, but intimate, warm and welcoming, classy and clean. We can celebrate our sexuality, and still be classy about it. Finally, When you visit JT's at the Summit, you're truly visiting me. I put my heart and soul into everything here, and I put all of myself into the day-to-day operation. When you come to JT's, you are being welcomed into my extended home, and truly see "JT" in everything here. 

SLE: Every successful venue has a team that works together to ensure guests are having a unique experience. Can you tell us about your team and what they do?

ღ JT ღ (msjacq): JT's at the Summit has a small staff of wonderful people. I'm not only the Owner but also the Operations Manager. My partner and Co-Owner Suzy Owens Also assist me in Managing our main club and helping me with administrative and supervisory duties. I also recently hired a wonderful woman named Jesselyn Fielding to Manage the partner club that sits next door to the main club. Jt's at the Summit will also be staffed with a team of top-level Dancers and Escorts. 

 

SLE: Running an adult establishment comes with a lot of responsibility. What rules do you have in place to ensure guests are not sexually harassed? What restrictions do you have in regards to age?

ღ JT ღ (msjacq): First of all, as the Owner, I'm present, which, let's be honest, isn't always the case in adult venues. That allows me to know what's going on here at all times. Next, My staff all have explicit rules concerning guest care and interaction as well as a comprehensive sexual harassment policy in place which applies to all staff including myself. Adult venues are about sex, so, guests who come here have to expect an atmosphere where sexuality is celebrated. That includes nudity in both clubs and an adult fun-themed atmosphere. With that in mind, at no time are my staff or guests ever asked to, or forced to do anything they are not comfortable doing. We're all adults, consent and safety are always the highest priorities. If at any time a member of my staff or a guest feels they are being pushed, or "forced" into an uncomfortable situation, not only can they teleport out if they feel it necessary, they can also contact me at any time day or night and I will respond the moment I see the message and deal with any inappropriate behavior immediately. That leads me to the second part of your question. Only adult avatars are allowed on the sim. That means guests and staff. If an avatar appears in any way to be under the legal age of consent they will be asked to leave immediately or made to if they refuse. 

SLE: There is a CFNM club that caught my attention during the tour, you mentioned there are 14 hot men ready and waiting to show the ladies a good time? Do you have to make an appointment or are there special events? Asking for a friend. lol

ღ JT ღ (msjacq): LOL, Our CFNM House or CFNM at the Summit is the partner club that is next door to our main club.  It is part of our "something for everyone" vision. As I mentioned above, I recently brought on Jesselyn Fielding to manage the CFNM house. She is an amazing woman with a lot of experience in the SL CFNM Community and will do amazing things here.  We've built a great team of hot sexy guys who are there to dance for and entertain our female guests. You can make an appointment with one of our CFNM Dancers and that can be arranged with the dancer directly.  We are also in the process of setting up "theme nights". Jess is working that out and that information will be posted and available soon. The CFNM house itself is unlike most CFNM establishments you may have seen in the past. The place is comfy, intimate, warm, and welcoming, and also equipped with only the best furniture and equipment available. It includes a Zen garden on the top floor with a massage area. (The massage table has an absolutely heavenly menu) Our CFNM Dancers are not allowed to IM any guest without express consent in local chat or send them any inventory items, gestures, images, or anything not requested. I know this is a problem in other places, it will not be here. I promise we'll take great care of your friend :)

 

SLE: Speaking of events, do you have a calendar or group guests can join to get notifications when something is happening?

ღ JT ღ (msjacq): Our VIP group is simply called JT's at the Summit. It is the VIP group for both clubs. There are group joiners once a person walks into the club they can click on and join, or they can contact a member of the staff for an invitation,  and can also search in groups under that name. There is no fee to join. We've also recently made our home on Facebook.

SLE: Are you hiring? If so, what positions do you have available and how can they apply?

ღ JT ღ (msjacq): I have a nice staff of male Dancers, however, I'm always happy to add to that roster. I am currently beginning the hiring process for my female Dancer/Escort staff. When someone walks into the main club they can find applications on the wall to the right near the elevator or speak to me, Suzy, or Jess directly. 

 

SLE: Is there anything else you would like to share with our readers?

ღ JT ღ (msjacq): Jt's at the Summit includes a number of areas throughout the sim. Both Clubs, two intimate cozy waterfall areas, a fenced and decked pool, and a "dance dock" with a deejay booth, a dance floor, and a top deck with a bar and social area that has an absolutely beautiful view. You're not going to ever be bored, just show up with your imagination and the intent of having a fun wonderful time. 

Additional Information:

SLURL http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Ravens%20Summit/161/157/23

Group: JT's at the Summit

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JTsAtTheSummit

Preferred Contact: Email or IM is fine

Read More