I have seen many discussions started by a simple Truthball question. Is sex in SL considered cheating if you are married in RL or does it count because it`s just an avatar? Also, should you dump the person or forgive them?
The way I see it is if both parties know what the other is doing in SL, they have rules, boundaries and they are adhered that is not cheating.
However, if one side of the couple is doing it behind the others back or lying to either their partner or the person they are doing things with in second life that is cheating.
So. that being said I`m heading out to get opinions from Sl residents about how they would handle lying and cheating.
Dragon Mistwalker (dragonmaster.mistwalker): if you partner cheats on you would you forgive them or would you dump them?
finn Somerset: hmmm, I would dump him...nods.
Dragon Mistwalker (dragonmaster.mistwalker): if your partner cheats on you would you forgive them or dump them?
LYN (littlelyn.claremont): dump them.
Dragon Mistwalker (dragonmaster.mistwalker): if your partner cheats on you would you forgive them or would you dump them?
MoRgaine (morgaine.faith): It's hard to say... depends on the bond, how long you've been together, your history as a couple... SL can provide a lot of temptation. Once trust is broken, it's extremely difficult to gain it back. I guess it really depends on how worth it you feel the relationship is worth fighting for... but that's just me, I'm a romantic at heart. :-).
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Dragon Mistwalker (dragonmaster.mistwalker): if your partner cheated on you would you forgive them or dump them?
Olivia (oliviadoolittle): dump them but it depends if I was married to them for 3 years or something I might forgive them.
Dragon Mistwalker (dragonmaster.mistwalker): if your partner cheated on you would you forgive them or dump them?
mustang Silvershade: depends if i can be big enough and forgive.
Dragon Mistwalker (dragonmaster.mistwalker): if your partner cheated on you would you forgive them or dump them?
Dessario: it depends how the relationship was defined... I do not believe monogamy is healthy in the long run, so if we were open I would be okay with it.
For most of the people I talked to they would dump their partner. I would agree that it depends on the relationship and the people involved, how strong the relationship is, and whether you can get past the cheating.
For some i`m sure forgiving makes for a stronger relationship while for others they can`t deal with the hurt and choose to leave the other person.
What are your thoughts on this topics?
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