Today we are talking about sex; yes you may
want to use parental guidance for this exploration. As we login with anticipation,
of the thought our special friend(s) are waiting for us. To hold hands with, share an embrace and oh
my gosh even try some pixel sex! This is
one very interesting topic that almost no one wants to be quoted on, but
everyone wants to hear about. It may come
as a surprise for some but the overwhelming majority say that Second Life sex
or as one person put it “SeXond Life” finds it fulfilling!
Astonishingly, we all want to explore sex,
whether it is a different position than our real life routine, or try something
more fifty shades of gray. In fact, most
of us actually do explore the darker side, such as BDSM, Cuckolding, group sex,
and Bi-sexuality to just list a few.
Fantasies are wonderful and being able to use
SL to try out your own secret wonders and passions is an exciting tool to say the
least. Especially if your RL sex life is
not fulfilling or maybe even non-existent.
This brings the thought, what happens if in RL one cannot physically
perform sexually for any multitude of reasons.
What then? Does it mean they no
longer have any need for sex?
After all we are sexual beings and have a
need to release endorphins that are connected to the pleasure centers of our
brain. Endorphin is any group of endogenous peptides found especially in the brain that bind chiefly
to opiate receptors and produce some pharmacological effects (pain
relief).
This is the definition of
endorphin according to the Merriam-Webster dictionary. It is also believed to have a role in
appetite control, release of pituitary sex hormones, and shock.
As one person noted with SL you do not have
the smell of sex, which depending on your partner can be either a pro or
con. We can hear sex sounds by our
imagination, emoting and using voice.
Then there is the taste of sex like kissing each other on the lips and
body the taste and scent of each other does play a definite part.
As some anonymous people have stated it is
sexual and sensual.
“There can be sexual satisfaction on some
levels but to enjoy highly sexually fulfilling experiences, sexuality and
sensuality need to be blended with emotions of the heart for a heightened
experience.”
“SL sex can be very fulfilling and is not
much different than the mental side of RL sex. People often look explicitly at
the RL portion of sex in a physical way and usually end up with a not very
satisfying sex life. Conversely people are look at "Pixel Shagging"
the same way and not have any emotional or sensual involvement.”
“I think sex can be fulfilling if the
participants have good imaginations and are good at emoting. It's just fun and a way to relax for me”
Yes, relaxation is the desired end result for
all of us. Regardless if we are role
playing, emoting, engaging each other with the combination of RL and SL, even
if you and your partner are Dominant/submissive.
Second Life also gives us an outlet from
looking like our actual self, like changing hair color, weight issues, and
physical attraction. As we all have seen
the overwhelming majority of us in SL are skinny to curvy to physically fit. Physical attraction plays a huge role in both
our lives regardless if they are melded together or kept separate. Don’t forget in real life sex there are the
embarrassing moments like birth control, condoms, S.T.D.’s, and so much more all
of this is conveniently forgotten in SL.
It is a great way if not the best way to
explore all our sexual and sensual needs with either full or partial anonymity,
depending on each person’s discretion.
As one SL Brothel owner that has been here
sin 2007 stated: “Yes, it can be very
fulfilling on both ends. Even working as
an escort, it can be fun and fulfilling, and like me... as a Brothel Owner, I
would not be here if I did not enjoy it.
It is about more than just money.”
Exploring SL is a lot of fun, exploring sex
in SL can be a learning experience as another individual: “Just like sex in RL, it can be amazing or it
can be a yawn. What's most fantastic about it is the ability to explore every
little fantasy, from cuckolding to breeding to bondage. It's a safe way to
figure out how your libido really works.
And every once in a while, you'll run across
that lover that can make your heart skip a beat and your stomach flutter and
every brain cell fire with that singular need to f*** and be f****d.
Frustrating as hell.... But worth it for
those rare few. <3”
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