SLE Investigative Report Part 1: Open Letter to The SL Enquirer About the ONDUTY Penis- Lanai Jarrico Reporting…

“Hi, my name is (Anonymous) and I run my own clinic on my husband’s land. Way before I met my husband and I was still getting to know how to do things in  Second Life,  I wouldn’t say I was a newbie but I was still learning about the community,. a guy asked me for a dance which I had no problem with until he asked me if I ever look at my hip when I dance with someone. It was an odd questions and I said no. 
Why would I?"

"He proceeded to tell me maybe I should look. I immediately stopped dancing with him. When I did, to my shock and horror, I got a message saying Congratulations I would be having a baby in 9 days! Then it sent me a message instructing where I needed to go to have the baby. Apparently his ONDUTY penis HUD went right through my jeans. I was angry and I asked him what the hell did he do to me and he laughed and walked away as if what he did was nothing and I was nobody."

" I began to cry because I was raped in real life and left for dead. All those horrific memories came flooding back inside me again. I reached out to my friends and they said I can’t be pregnant if I don’t have on a mommy hud  and if  it is Second Life I can play role what I want.  They acted like it was no big deal.

 It is a big deal to me because I am a victim of rape.  I couldn’t accept what my friends told me. I’m sorry even if it is Second Life; it’s like rape plain and simple.

I went to the place instructed by that pregnancy message. It was called Happy Birthing Clinique.  The facility was disgusting. There was no staff available to help u me and I was on my own. The SL doctor that was with me told me to touch the pregnancy test machine and it confirmed i was impregnated with the ONDUTY penis and I wasn’t event wearing an ONDUTY mom HUD.

The SL Doctor told me to put on the mommy tummy that was provides at Happy Birthing Clinique.  Since I was way past the 9 days, I was given  options to either deliver or abort. I decided to have the baby rather than do the abortion.  The hardest thing was delivering a baby that was a product of what I felt was rape and walking away from the baby as the doctor watched it delete by its self.  The baby gives the father’s name that got u pregnant as well as the mother’s name.

 My SL husband and I wanted kids when we got married and we hadn’t really look into huds before this.

  We purchased our first conception HUD from Pooterbilt.  It requires female avatars to wear a mommy HUD and the male avatars to wear a daddy HUD. The way it works is the mommy has the option to except sperm from the daddy or not. She has a choice.

 We used the system properly and got pregnant. Since we were new to this, we went to a clinic that didn’t give good service and I told my husband I didn’t not want woman going through what we did and  I wanted to open my own clinic. I decided to get training in Second Life and provide the best care I could to couples wanting to experience pregnancy and childbirth virtually.

Today, I mainly work with Pooterbilt HUDs because they provide a realistic experience. My clinic has also worked with Mama alpha patients but I have to be honest I’m not too fond of that HUD system because it has a force feature. I don’t think nothing should be forced.

 During my time working as an SL Doctor, I’ve come across many girls ( other clinics will tell u same thing) where these girls come in crying saying they are pregnant and they were raped .  I try to calm the girl down and ask what happen and what where they doing before they came to my clinic. Their replies are usually the same.  These ladies were dancing or just standing around in a crowd and they got this message.

As a precaution not to violated Second Life’s terms of service, I have to ask what age role they are playing as well as ask real life age to comply with TOS regulations. I cannot afford to lose my SL family, my husband, my clinic or our land if my account gets deleted for helping someone that is role playing a minor or is one in real life.

 I am put in a position where I have to turn these girls away and apologize because I can’t touch them even though I understand their circumstance and how they feel.

 They get upset with good reason and yell at me in caps and question my sympathy for them. I have to explain to them that I am a real life survivor of rape that was left for dead. So I do know and understand because I also had this happen to me in Second Life.

My hands are tied when it comes down to TOS regulations. If the person is underage in real life or role playing an underage person, I cannot help them.

There are clinics out there that don’t ask for age of role play and real age. Maybe they don’t have a lot to lose or it is mostly about making lindens to some.

 As for me, I have a lot to lose. I’ve even been asked why I do what u do because everyone lies about age. I understand that but I love what I do in Second Life. I use to be a real nurse. In Second Life I prefer the caregiver role so I am no doctor. To clarify things, I make it well known to my clients that I have a certification as a Second Life doctor. I went to a school in Second Life called Whispering Wind Medical School for training and my certification. It does not make me a real doctor. I role play a doctor in Second life, nothing more.

For protection purposes, my clinic has a security orb because I want my clients to feel safe and not have to worry about griefers or stalkers following them or starting drama in my clinic. I want it to remain a is drama free zone where I space out appointments so the clients have their privacy.

 I would like to see the ONDUTY penis banned from SL marketplace and make the person who created the system accountable for the mental anguish it has caused many women on here. It is not funny or just a game. Rape is not a joke.  People can have opinions and laugh all they want but when rape happens to u in real life. It will give you a different perspective.  If  Linden Labs  refuses to take  the ONDUTY Penis out of circulation then I wish there could be something that detects the ONDUTY penis and who ever is wearing it  gets automatic banned from the sim.

 The ONDUTY penis should only be allowed to be used in the area where it was created; the Happy Birthing Clinique. I have contacted the creator of the equipment that is used at that clinic and inquired about the ONDUTY penis and have yet to receive a reply.

I would like to own some of the equipment at my clinic so when someone gets violated by the ONDUTY penis,  I can give them dignified treatment  where it is private, safe from griefers and my clients are comfortable.

I do not charge a fee when a woman tells me they been raped by the ONDUTY penis It is obvious that the creator of the ONDUTY equipment  and penis do not respond to my ims or note cards so I assume they don’t care about what is going on as long as they make some money out of it.

 I have one thing to say to the creator of the ONDUTY penis. Call this griefer tool what it is, A RAPE TOOL because that is exactly what it is doing to these girls who have no choice to decline the violator’s forced actions.

I recently met Hal Jordan, head of operations for The Green Lanterns of Second Life and informed him about my concerns and what it did as I fought back my tears. I shared with him what happen to me both in real life and in Second Life. He informed me about the SL Enquirer and that this source could create awareness and help these girls out.

So with the help of the SL Enquirer, I want to make a clear warning to all women in Second Life.  Please do not leave your avatar unattended at any time. If u have to leave AFK., i can’t stress this enough, log out or go to a place where no one can do things to your avatar.  If someone is using the ONDUTY penis and you are away or not, you may  get an unexpected  message saying Congratulations  you are pregnant and  will deliver in 9 days followed by instructions to go to the Happy Birthday Clinique.

 Again, there is no button once it is sent to decline it. You will have to go to the Happy Birthing Clinique to undo the pregnancy.  They are the only clinic that can detect if you   are pregnant or not and can do anything for you.

I would also like to say to woman if you and your partner want to get pregnant then I would suggest getting the Pooterbilt mommy and daddy HUDs.  That is my first choice for woman the second choice would be the Mama Allpa. Just remember there is a force option on Mama Allpa . Pooterbilt HUDs do not have this force pregnancy options.

Also, before jumping into any clinic whether its mine or another, please do your research! Ask around and don’t just give up your hard earned lindens so easy.

All I want from this article is for the people that made the ONDUTY penis responsible for what they created. Sex is not a joke and it is not a game.  It is something that should be cherished between two people.  Role playing rape is not a joke either . As an Sl community we should come together and figure out what to do about this HUD.

 I’d like to thank Hal Jordan for helping me get this story out and the SL Enquirer for investigating it."

 Thanks again,

Anonymous

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Investigative Report Part 2 coming soon!